We Dream : Anna Polak

 

We Dream #1 : Anna PolakKrasnoyarsk, Siberia Russia

“Life is short, you must enjoy good food.”

Age: 26Occupation: Formerly a journalist in Russia, but now studies the Korean language and Food Management in South KoreaFavorite Habit: Eating good food and drinking dry red wine.Favorite Food: Meat and savory baked goodsParent’s Occupation: Restaurant ownersChildhood Dream: To be an animal doctor

When I met Anna for our interview, I immediately noticed her bright eyes and effortless sophistication. She is a women with many passions, interests and with a vision. She comes from Krasnoyarsk, Russia, the third largest city in Siberia, with a population of almost one million people. After she graduating, she worked as a journalist. Yet after just two years at a Russian newspaper, the work lost it’s thrill, and she felt that she needed to look for something more. Her friends suggested that she learn a new language, something Asian, because she loved Japanese culture. She took their advice and started a Korean language course. A few weeks into the course, she learned that her professor was going to South Korea for 2 weeks, and invited her to come. She went, and she immediately was enchanted by the country.She loved it so much that she moved to South Korea to study its language and get a degree in food management. She will be live in Korea for five years.When I asked her what her dreams are in the 10 to 15 years of life, Anna's eyes grow brighter and brighter. She has many dreams, and they stem from her priorities: family and her belief in tolerance.Why tolerance? I ask. Because when you have tolerance, you don’t have to hate people, she said.She explains that when she was young her father left her family, and she didn't meet him again until she was 16 years old. When she met him again, she asked him why he had left and never contacted her. He couldn't explain it, she said. This hurt her, and every time that she was around he father she would feel sad."I hate feeling sad. I don’t want to be sad when I’m with my father; I don’t want to cry," she said.So Anna decided that she must learn to understand and tolerate him so that they could be friends. Regardless of what he had done, he was still her father, she said.This principle guides her not only in her family relationships, but even with strangers who are rude or unkind to her. She says that she tries to find tolerance and understanding for everyone, and not care about their opinions, so that they won’t effect her day or life. And I think this is the wisdom which allows her to dream so freely.What are her dreams, you ask? Well, let's see.....In the future, Anna sees herself as a farmer and a restaurant owner in New Zealand or somewhere similar  She wants to live in a two-story house with farmland, 3 children, 2 boys and a girl, and having a chef husband. "He doesn’t need to be beautiful just have a strong body and mind," she said.Her restaurant will have simple food, she says, but have spectacular ambiance."Atmosphere is important," she says while taking a moment to look upward, as if she is envisioning the details her spectacular future restaurant.Anna goes on to explain why atmosphere is vital."Why does ok food, eaten at a friends house taste soooo good?" she asks. "because you’re surrounded by people you love in a familiar, comfortable atmosphere. This is why good food can taste great."So if you're in New Zealand in the next 10-15 years look Anna up, she will for sure have the most delicious of restaurants on the island.Here are a few images from a photography shoot that I did with the lovely Anna Polak. She’s could be a movie actress, couldn’t she?

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About: We Dream

Introducing a New Series.. "We Dream"

Introducing a New Series : We Dream

I just love dreams, especially the ones that we dream when we are fully awake. These are the most delicious kind of all. Like Apple pie and Vanilla ice cream, superb!We all have dreams in us, big and small. On good days, we are brave enough to admit that we dream to ourselves and other, yet on other days we feel too foolish or discouraged to dream. So we tend push our dreams away to make way for "reality." and a realistic lifestyle. But why?Do you know something?We all have amazing talents and wild passions so why should we settle for just reality? You think that we settle for reality because this is how we think we'll achieve success? But wait, have you wondered who really defines success, anyhow? Who decided that success means a stable job, a house, a spouse, 2 kids or a biannual vacation to Florida? And why did we believe him? Because he fabricated the whole story!Success isn't any of those things. Success is unique to each one of us.Here is another question for you.. to get you thinking.. if you stopped, and took the time to define success for you, would you find that your success is different than status quo success? Success for you could be living in a cottage in a quiet forest eating wild berries and honey or directing an orphanage with many little munchkins or travelling the world by bicycle or just being happy and peaceful or (you, fill in the blank). These can all be success, can’t they?So many people, myself included, feeling pressure and fear to achieve the definition of success that those other people tell us we ought to achieve. Why don’t we stop and define success for ourselves? It would be so much more fun, wouldn’t it? People’s expectations of you weigh you down. Dreaming is more exciting, and it brings more life.I want more life around us, not less. We need more happiness. Did you know that dreaming has been scientifically proven to stimulate the part of the brain which is positive, open to change and new possibilities? That's neat right? This is precisely why I want to begin this series about dreamers and their dreams. So we can open up our minds and hearts to see the possibilites that lie inside us and ahead of us. I want to meet and interview people from all walks of life, ages and countries and ask them this simple question. What is the best life that you could dream of living in 10-15 years time? And through sharing their dreams I hope it will inspire other people to dream too.So let’s dream together. I know it is scary at times... but let's go for it! Allow yourself to dream, because it is amazing what your heart holds when you’re vulnerable enough to dream.

Stay tuned for our first dreamer.. She is Anna from Russia.

But while you wait, here is a video to get you excited about dreaming again. It is really worth taking a few minutes of your time to watch and listen. For me watching it was Inspiring, Wise and Life-changing. Enjoy. :-)